The Way Of The Superior Man | Book




This book is a guide for a specific kind of newly evolving man. This man is unabashedly
masculine—he is purposeful, confident, and directed, living his chosen way of life with deep integrity
and humor—and he is sensitive, spontaneous, and spiritually alive, with a heart-commitment to
discovering and living his deepest truth.

This kind of man is totally turned on by the feminine. He loves to take his woman sexually, to
ravish her, but not in some old-style macho fashion. Rather, he wants to ravish her with so much love
she is vanished, they both vanish, in the fullness of loving itself. He is dedicated to incarnating love on
this earth, through his work and his sexuality, and he does so as a free man, bound neither by outer
convention nor inner cowardice.

This newly evolving man is not a scared bully, posturing like some King Kong in charge of the
universe. Nor is he a new age wimp, all spineless, smiley, and starry-eyed. He has embraced both his
inner masculine and feminine, and he no longer holds onto either of them. He doesn’t need to be right all
the time, nor does he need to be always safe,’ cooperative, and sharing, like an androgynous Mr. Nice
Guy. He simply lives from his deepest core, fearlessly giving his gifts, feeling through the fleeting
moment into the openness of existence, totally committed to magnifying love.

To help illuminate the purpose of The Way of the Superior Man, I will draw on a few
principles of sexuality and spiritual growth which are developed in my book Intimate Communion1
Until fairly recently, modern roles for men and women were fixed and separated. Men were
supposed to go out and earn money. Women were supposed to stay home and take care of the kids.
Men often manipulated their women through physical and financial dominance and threat. Women
often manipulated their men through emotional and sexual strokes and stabs. The typical and extreme
caricatures of this previous time are the macho jerk and the submissive housewife. If you are reading
this book, you have probably outgrown this first stage of sexual identity. Or at least you can smile about


Happy learning!

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